gatchamarie
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| quote: | Originally posted by ChrisW
Someone told me once that hairdressers will often try to talk people out of black because once it's applied, it's really not something that can be undone or adjusted, compared to other colours. I have no idea if that's true or not but this friend has gotten her hair dyed a lot so it probably is.
I bet those silent notices were satisfying, gatchamarie.  "That's right, I look good! *pbbfth*" |
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Black is a stubborn colour .. you're right, CW! You have to take a firm decision, after chewing it a bit before, before taking the plunge! But, my hairdresser told me that it could wear out by time (taking a bit longer than the other colours), if I'd decide to return to my normal habits, and has assured me that the change in colour tones whilst fading away would resemble normal hair colours at different stages and not that orangy after-effect. She also told me that dying only the roots according to the colour change during the wipe-out phase would work well! So, we'll see! I'm loving the black right now!
Regarding the silent notices ... well, they're definitely an answer and bring some satisfaction with them, even though I still cannot understand such attitude! Perhaps it's due to my nature, as I'm one who's always glad with what I hear or see nice, and if I'd feel somehow uncomfortable to compliment someone because of lack of familiarity I'd try to show it in some other way and not with snarky looks! That's the thing ... some of these people are not unfamiliar, at all, but I think I still have to learn a lot in life at my old age! Admittedly ... and I'm confessing, here ... I do tend to not show my appreciation to only a very few people in my life, but only because they did me a lot of wrong! I don't give them snarky looks (well ... most of the time :p !) but I try not to over-compliment them, either, as these few I know are very, very needy-in-the-excessive-narcissistic-way persons that could ever exist!
Sorry for the burst-out, there! I'm going through another phase of trying to accept certain people these days!
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gatchamarie
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| quote: | Originally posted by gatchamarie
Sorry for the burst-out, there! I'm going through another phase of trying to accept certain people these days! |
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That's no biggie, Marie. Everyone goes through that from time to time. (Admit it, Chick, you're human, just like the rest of us!) |
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Thanks for the encouragement, EW, and for bringing me back to the ground! *hugs*
I don't know why I always feel like I'm the bad one even when I'm not, though! I'm also firing out things, which others do not want to hear, and am acting a bit out, lately (sometimes with faults, too!) out of frustration, so I might have made my enemies even tougher than before! Guess I need some super powers added to my human capabilities from now onwards, but I really am at the brim of explosion, right now!! There's only one therapy that I'm finding as working well ... to focus my love on my loved ones and true friends more! Even though there's always that dull feeling inside ...
Now, sheeesh ... enough with the complaining! BTW ... that was for me!
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"The heart has its reasons, of which reason knows nothing." -- Blaise Pascal 
