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JohngPR
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Does anyone else have internet "friends" that are complete A-holes to you 90% of the time?
There's a group of us that usually have video games in common so we chat on Xbox Live Party chat while we play games. For whatever reason there's this one guy (let's call him Brian because you know that's his real name LOL). That goes from acting one way on the message boards (a complete A-hole) to being civil and fine when we party chat.
He harasses me all the time because I'll play games he doesn't like and acts like I'm an idiot for liking them. This usually doesn't bother me because I can stick up for myself, but last week he went way too far.
I bought Heavy Rain for PS3 and was playing it and the entire time I'd talk about it he'd tell me how shitty the game is and that I'm dumb for wanting to play it.
The weird part is that he complains how bad it is, but he watched someone else play it on youtube. So apparently I should take his opinion about a game he didn't even play.
Anyway, he went as far as to send me and some of my other friends on Twitter (which he picked randomly) spoilers about the game just to be an asshole. I basically told him off and unfollowed him. It's one thing to send me story spoilers, but it was out of line for him to do that to other friends of mine that happened to have been playing the game as well.
Now it seems like one of the other people from the group is taking his place as Mr. "I can't believe you are playing game A when you haven't even played Game B". It's like he's his disciple.
My thing is, I don't see the big deal! Who cares what games I have or haven't played? I can understand giving me a hard time, but these guys are borderline harassing me about it.. LOL
I'm seriously considering severing all ties altogether, but there are other people on the message board that I actually like.
What does suck is that this group always party chats with the guy I told off, so I guess I'm not included in that Party chat anymore. 
Not sure if I had a point anywhere in there, just wanted to rant and blow off some steam. LOL
Don't you hate people like that? Geez, I'm a huge gamer, but sometimes people take things too far.
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This post has been edited 1 time(s), it was last edited by JohngPR on 09-03-2010 at 16:45.
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09-03-2010 16:44
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SJ_SwanJun
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You know, John ... Look at it this way: Each to their own, man. Just because this fool doesn't like it, it doesn't mean someone else won't. Don't let his continual ranting give you the shits. Ignore him and walk away. So long as you're enjoying it, then alls good, really.
Like, he sounds like one of those vegetarian nutcases who -- just because they don't want to eat meat -- feel like they have to impose their beliefs upon others to force them to make the same "choice" they have.. And being the abolute carnivore that I am, I encounter many of these kinds of people ... to which I simply respond "Do you notice how we meat eaters eat the herbivores? ... go right ahead and eat all the green shit you want, because once I've eaten all the cows and lambs and such, I'm coming after you with a fork!" HAHA!!
But I digress...
This bloke is obviously obsessing about this game if he is so eager to continually speak about it. Perhaps he realized that he just sucks ass at the game and therefore is saying "It sucks ass" rather than admitting "I suck ass more"....
HAHA, I just noticed Gatchmarie said pretty much the same thing ... much more eloquently than I, of course ... LOL!
So I shall scoot, then ... I have nothing more to add as those above me have said it all ... meaning: I agree with all these lovely gals!
Ignore the nastiness, dear, and go at that game!
SJ
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10-03-2010 01:48
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Berg Katse
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I look at it this way--if someone who is not involved with my job/school/family is bothering me, I'm most likely not going to waste my time, energy or breath to deal with them. When people fish for attention by acting like an asshole (and they are doing it for attention, because if you ignore them, they stop), I don't take the bait. I always ask myself, "In the scheme of my life, how much will this matter next week, next month, next year, in ten years?" The minute you realize it's only meant to antagonize and ruin your pleasure at that moment, that's when I shut them down. I do what I want, and I don't need anyone's approval to do it. I don't go out of my way to comment on their daily life, so they should stay the hell out of mine. And if they can't, then I'll gladly help them by cutting them off from the drug. I'm not going to help someone make my life miserable. I've better things to do with my time.
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10-03-2010 02:34
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