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Girlfriends! I Mean Really I Don't Know What To Do! I Have a Cute Girlfriend Named Jessica. She Is A Fellow Client at Work Who I Fell In Love With! We Went To Lake Powell Together And We Share The Same Hobbies Like Power Rangers And Yu-gi-Oh 5d's But Recentlly Seems Like She Is Pushing Me Further Away! I Am Thinking To Myself Is It Worth Being Her Boyfriend? I Am A Little Ansy About Breaking Up With Her Because I Got In Major trouble With Her Parents Last Time I Broke Up With Her!


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You can either put up with her bs, talk with her or dump. But don't put her parents into the equation. Or perhaps definitely factor them in:

If this becomes serious, how do they treat you and can you tolerate it at its worst? How does she react when they are down on you? In-laws who control your spouse are the worst, and the worst fights I've had with my hubby have been when he has not stood up and corrected his parents' behavior towards me.

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I agree with Amethyst.

The one thing I picked up on is that you've broken up with her in the past. If the reason then is the same as the reason now, then I would suggest that in the future nothing will change. In other words, don't walk down this path again!

I'm not sure why you want advice from Condors - our relationships tend to end badly - and with a great deal of bloodshed....

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You definitely have to look at why you broke up with her in the past! You broke up with her. Why? What changed that you got back together with her? If your answer to that involves pressure from her parents, then you're with her for the wrong reasons.

I also agree with both Amethyst and Green.

This needs to be talked about - don't beat around the bush come out and say "I feel like you're pushing me away. What can I do to help us mend our relationship?"

Then LISTEN to her answer and ask for clarification if there is anything that seems vague.

But the bottom line is that if her answer is completely vague, then she doesn't want to be with you any more.

And just on grammar- only use a capital letter to start a sentence or a proper noun. Sorry if that seems picky in this thread - but having a capital letter with each word makes it a little harder to read.

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