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Posted by AllentownDarkWater on 07-03-2012 at 06:22:

Angry I can't take this! How come certain people are removing me from Facebook for

Okay, since 2009, certain people have been removing me from their Facebook friend lists and I have NO clue why in the hell they did and can't think of a possible reason. Two of the people that have done it to me are people I met at AnimeNEXT, one is most recent, and is someone I was VERY fond of and really liked (plus some other people on my friend list were mutual friends). Again, I don't know WHAT I could have done to cause this. All I did was ask this person if they had anymore pictures of them in a certain costume they wore and if they had Skype. Every other person whom I've asked these questions haven't avoided me like the plague! And I sent PM after PM to this person asking what was wrong, including a recent one where I expressed the fact that I was frustrated that they were doing this for god knows what reason. And this person is a girl mind you. I mean, it's not like I was trying to put the moves on her or anything! She has a boyfriend and I respect that fact. It's not like I was trying to steal her away from her BF or something! WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING?! Yes, I'm having a big "What does it all mean?" moment, and it's pissing me off.

That's her FB page. What the fuck am I supposed to do? I hope by some bizarre chance she happens to see this message and can see how frustrated and confused I am as to why she'd be doing this to me. I just wanted to be her friend. I didn't want to **** her or anything.

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Posted by Madilayn on 08-03-2012 at 01:08:

Allen - perhaps you should read your posts here and you may get an idea.

We like you, we share your interests, but you really do need to get over yourself.

The universe doesn't revolve around you. It doesn't owe you anything.

To be a friend, you need to be a friend and whilst friends are always there to listen to your problems, you tend to go over the top and feel that you are hardly done by and persecuted by thigns that, really, are nothings.

It's great you share on facebook, but I know that I don't like being tagged in posts that I am not really a part of - except for a possible interest in the subject matter. You need to understand that there are certain social ettiquites, and those people who are removing you from their friends lists feel that you have overstepped them.

Allen, hun, it's time to grow up. It;s time to undersand that people grow and change, and their priorities change. What was once somting they wanted to be a part of may have changed and so it is no longer relevant.

They have the right to remove you from their facebook friends list. You have the right to be unhappy about it, but you also need to accept it and live with it.

And let's be honest here - there are bigger problems you could be upset about than having some people remove you from their facebook friends list.

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Posted by AllentownDarkWater on 08-03-2012 at 17:00:

When did I say anything about the universe revolving around me? Of course not. I care about alot of people including my friends. What else am I supposed to do when something like this frustrates me? Hold it in forever?

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